Come on...
of course we want you to dress up.
I mean... it's us!
'Fancy' dress
Dress the level of fancy you are comfortable with.
Not everyone is as mad as us. We will be dressed like sparkly lunatics and we would love for you to join us in that! If you are not comfortable dressing as a disco ball then we have some suggestions.
An excuse
Wear that amazing outfit you bought once
We all have one, the velvet dress, the impractical suit. That amazing thing you thrifted that doesn't go with anything else you own... Think it might be 'over the top'? Sounds perfect.
Up-stage the bride
Yup, seriously.
We are not following any particular traditions, the bride won't be wearing white and bridesmaids can wear whatever they like. We would like everyone to look as amazing as possible!
There are also no requirement around the men having to wear black suits or anything; why not a purple one?
A small token
Be your best, most comfortable, most fabulous self.
It's okay if you don't want to wear velvet and feathers, all we ask is that you make some small fabulous nod in a way that you feel comfortable with.